If You Want Outrageous Things Out of Life, You have to Be Outrageous to Get Them!

If you want outrageous things out of life, then it’s completely outrageous that you don’t do anything outrageous to get them.

How do you expect results if you don’t invest?

Why do you expect enormously positive outcomes — in your business or in life — if you’re not willing to do what it takes to get you there?

Think about anything in life or your day-to-day experience. Nothing comes easy or without paying the price.

Are you dreaming or are you actually willing to do what it takes to get where you want to go?

You want something crazy?

Go do something crazy to get it!

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Don’t become an Influencer for the Wrong Reasons

Don’t try to be an influencer for the sake of being an influencer.

Don’t become a personal brand for the sake of becoming a personal brand.

Rather, focus on providing value to others. Let the influence come to you as a result.

I think that’s a recipe for failure and a losing strategy. Perhaps, it will bring you short-term success, but you’ll lose in the long-term because the people who become truly influential and remain relevant are the ones who have a message, who stand for something, and who bring unique value to the table.

That means they say “no” to things as much or more often as they say “yes.” They make conscious decisions based on their values and will turn down quick cash if it means maintaining the health and integrity of their brand.

There is a lot of money in the influencer space right now and we have influencers on all platforms — bloggers, Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and more. Almost every kid nowadays wants to be one and thinks they can do it relatively quickly.

I have worked with influencers, primarily on Instagram. It concerns me that many people are not focused first and foremost on providing value to their audience. They simply want to be an influencer and get all the rewards that come with it. But an influencer or a personal brand will only engage and inspire if there is substance and authenticity behind it.

If you’re only doing it for the fame or money and you’re willing to collaborate with any brand as long as it pays, you will eventually lose credibility with your audience.

When you’re not being authentic and genuine and true to your brand values or if you don’t actually believe in the products you’re promoting, people will catch on and get turned off.

People can smell a faker. So, make sure you’re becoming an influencer for the right reasons.

Doing Something Out of the Ordinary

This past summer, I had the privilege of doing something very different from my normal routine for a few days.

I’m going to be an extra on a popular Amazon Prime show. Look out for me in Season 2!

You may have heard about it. It’s called Marvelous Mrs. Maisels. 😄

The pay was small, but of course, I did it for the experience more than anything else. I think it’s important in life to be open to new opportunities and experiences. To go beyond one’s comfort zone and to explore other possibilities.

You never know where something may go. The more interesting things you do, the more interesting you become and the better your stories will be. 🙂

How Do You Feel About Mondays?

It’s Monday morning. ☀️

How do you feel about that? ☕️

Excited? 😊

Nervous? 😬

Annoyed? 😒

Are you feeling pumped?

Are you dreading it, looking at the clock and hoping it will be over soon? 🕰

Your answer to this question can have a major impact on your life. When I was in school, I was no fan of Mondays. Sadly, I think most adults feel the way I did in school, or when I was in a job I didn’t like. I understand that some people look at their work as “just a job,” and that’s OK, although sad considering we spend most of our lives at work.

They may not derive much meaning or joy from their career. Perhaps, they truly come alive after work when they’re at home with their families or pursuing a hobby. Maybe they’re happiest on the weekends binging a series. Maybe travel and vacations are where they find their bliss. But, considering we spend most of our waking hours at work, wouldn’t it be nice if we loved our jobs or at least liked them?

It would certainly be terrible if we hated what we spend most of our lives doing. I know not everyone is like me. Not everyone has to absolutely love what they do in order to be successful.

Still, something to consider. And, with the Internet affording us unlimited opportunities and the ability to monetize our hobbies and interests outside of work, why not try?

Dealing with the Pressure

So busy lately.

I feel like my startup is in crunch mode.

New accounts, keeping the ones that are still a fit, people joining the team, and steadily building momentum.

But the pressure to deliver builds.

The growth is good, but anything can happen. No time to rest. One piece could be moved and threaten to topple what has been built.

So, I keep my head down. Focused on what’s in front of me. Even if that means you don’t hear from me as much for a while or I share with you at odd times.

We’ve reached a critical phase in our first year and we’re determined to prove ourselves and win respect in the market.

Where are you in your career or business? What steps are you taking to continue your personal or professional growth?

Please let me know in the comments!

Entrepreneurs Need to Roll with the Punches

Funny how entrepreneurship has become so glamorized in the media and popular culture. Being your “own boss” definitely sounds pretty cool and it is, but don’t think you have no one to answer to.

Ever been yelled at by someone you don’t even know for something you didn’t even do, and still apologized? I would be very surprised if you haven’t. Guess what? It happens to everyone in the business world.

Your boss probably gets screamed at more than you do. We all have to suck it up and “eat it” now and then. Responding with emotion can cost you dearly.

When you have your own business, all the responsibilities fall on your shoulders. You have to deal with a lot more punches 🥊 and you can’t blame anyone but yourself.

Sure, you can defend yourself when prudent. You don’t have to be a doormat. But, know that in a certain sense, it’s always your fault. You’re always accountable, especially if you’re in a business serving clients.

All of this keeps you humble and on your toes. Use it to grow and become better.

Business is Business, but It Still Gets Personal

Business is business, but don’t think for a second that it’s never personal. ❤️

Entrepreneurship is a deeply personal game. It will force you to get more in touch with who you are and face all that you are in an open, vulnerable, honest and often uncomfortable way.

Sure, you’ve got to spend most of your time quantitatively on keeping your clients and customers happy, especially in the beginning.

Don’t get distracted with fantasies of exits or things you’re going to buy someday or ideas for second and third businesses. There is time for that, but there are urgent and important matters at hand right now.

Still, if you don’t make time to dream. 💭 To fantasize just a little. To step back, dig deep, soul search, and maintain perspective on what matters to you in life, you’ll never be able to truly reach your potential and withstand the challenges, which come with being an entrepreneur.