This past summer, I had the privilege of doing something very different from my normal routine for a few days.
I’m going to be an extra on a popular Amazon Prime show. Look out for me in Season 2!
You may have heard about it. It’s called Marvelous Mrs. Maisels. 😄
The pay was small, but of course, I did it for the experience more than anything else. I think it’s important in life to be open to new opportunities and experiences. To go beyond one’s comfort zone and to explore other possibilities.
You never know where something may go. The more interesting things you do, the more interesting you become and the better your stories will be. 🙂
So busy lately.
I feel like my startup is in crunch mode.
New accounts, keeping the ones that are still a fit, people joining the team, and steadily building momentum.
But the pressure to deliver builds.
The growth is good, but anything can happen. No time to rest. One piece could be moved and threaten to topple what has been built.
So, I keep my head down. Focused on what’s in front of me. Even if that means you don’t hear from me as much for a while or I share with you at odd times.
We’ve reached a critical phase in our first year and we’re determined to prove ourselves and win respect in the market.
Where are you in your career or business? What steps are you taking to continue your personal or professional growth?
Please let me know in the comments!
Funny how entrepreneurship has become so glamorized in the media and popular culture. Being your “own boss” definitely sounds pretty cool and it is, but don’t think you have no one to answer to.
Ever been yelled at by someone you don’t even know for something you didn’t even do, and still apologized? I would be very surprised if you haven’t. Guess what? It happens to everyone in the business world.
Your boss probably gets screamed at more than you do. We all have to suck it up and “eat it” now and then. Responding with emotion can cost you dearly.
When you have your own business, all the responsibilities fall on your shoulders. You have to deal with a lot more punches 🥊 and you can’t blame anyone but yourself.
Sure, you can defend yourself when prudent. You don’t have to be a doormat. But, know that in a certain sense, it’s always your fault. You’re always accountable, especially if you’re in a business serving clients.
All of this keeps you humble and on your toes. Use it to grow and become better.
Business is business, but don’t think for a second that it’s never personal. ❤️
Entrepreneurship is a deeply personal game. It will force you to get more in touch with who you are and face all that you are in an open, vulnerable, honest and often uncomfortable way.
Sure, you’ve got to spend most of your time quantitatively on keeping your clients and customers happy, especially in the beginning.
Don’t get distracted with fantasies of exits or things you’re going to buy someday or ideas for second and third businesses. There is time for that, but there are urgent and important matters at hand right now.
Still, if you don’t make time to dream. 💭 To fantasize just a little. To step back, dig deep, soul search, and maintain perspective on what matters to you in life, you’ll never be able to truly reach your potential and withstand the challenges, which come with being an entrepreneur.
The other day, a client asked us to do something that requires a bit extra effort and time on our part than is required by our arrangement.
“How much will it cost?” he asked. I was a bit surprised.
Until this moment, I hadn’t even thought to charge him extra for this service. “No extra charge at all!” I told him happily.
Thinking about it the next day, I realized that some people might have used that experience as an opportunity to make a little extra easy money. 💰 And, yet here I was feeling so great that I was able to tell him that it was no charge.
I realized that I genuinely feel happier providing value by giving the client a little surprise and delight than I do getting some quick cash. Obviously, we need to make a living and provide for ourselves and our families. I don’t work for free or on the cheap. But, I’m focused on the long-term. I strive to build positive values and long-term thinking into my company. Now, I don’t expect that this client will necessarily stay with us or refer us or even give us a good review, because of this event. But, I do think by doing good and putting out good into the world, we will earn a reputation and a legacy which will pay off greatly in the future.
There is a big difference between doing and managing. I’ve freelanced as a content writer for over 5 years and now I’m getting my first taste of managing others.
Currently, I’m managing a small team of three, which includes another writer, as well as a social media marketer and a Facebook ads specialist.
Mastering the skill of delegating is crucial to being able to scale and grow a business. It’s scary to relinquish control and allow someone else to do something you usually do yourself, but it’s something you must to do if you want to get to the next level and not remain a solopreneur.
So far, I’ve learned a few things that can help:
1) Spoon-feed. Something may be obvious to you but not to the person you hired. Prepare notes for them, communicate clearly, and give them everything they need to succeed.
2) Don’t micromanage. Resist the urge to hover and nitpick. Even if you think you can do a better job (you probably can), you need to give them breathing room to thrive.
3) Empathize. Put yourself in their shoes. Maybe you’ve been on the other side of the table (I have). Understand their needs for direction. Pay fairly and on time. Be kind.
4) Make peace with disappointment. Consider yourself lucky if they get it right on the first try. If they don’t, you likely didn’t communicate clearly. Have patience and be willing to help.
I think in the entrepreneur/business world, hustle is often promoted even at the expense of taking good care of health. As if you’re going to be more on your game when sleep deprived, eating fried greasy food, and out of shape? I don’t buy into this myth and I think if we’re honest with ourselves, we know we can’t be as productive when we neglect health.
In the case of someone like myself who has a lot of restless, creative energy, but is given to distraction, exercise and eating healthy isn’t a luxury I can worry about once I’ve “made it.” It directly correlates with my mood and my performance at work.
My mind and my ability to problem solve is infinitely better when I’m physically active. This is one reason that I recently built myself a standing desk. And I work increasingly more on my phone.
The old days of making excuses for sitting around because I work in digital are obsolete.
I sit here typing this post on the locker room bench in the gym inspired and fueled by endorphins after a workout which followed a busy morning of prospecting on LinkedIn DM, follow up calls, and closing a new client.
No doubt in mind, this will power me through the rest of the day. This is the BEST way to start the morning and the week! 💪